What makes it even greater is both of these men are hearing impaired, Dylan 85%, Andy, completely. If you saw them at work, you would never know it. Their "impairment" does not slow them down one bit. In some cases their knowledge of a second language helps them in their work. They use sign language in the field where voices would not carry over the distance and noise.
Because of their presence, our firm carries on differently. When we have our monthly company conference calls, an interpreter attends. Associates are more aware of speaking directly to each other instead of looking away when speaking. Because of their employment, we, as a group, are better.
Last night, Dave and I had the privilege of attending Andy's wedding. It was a beautiful wedding. The happiness radiating off these two people was contagious. The setting was gorgeous, an old Lutheran church, a huge wedding party all decked out in dark purple dresses and black tuxes with dark purple vests. The minister talked about the difference between a heart-shaped love which is the now, the fancy wedding attire, the honeymoon, the presents and a cross-shaped love, which is the enduring, the everyday, the service and the most difficult. She made you think about your own marriage, not just the one taking shape in front of your eyes.
After the wonderful service, we all walked a block down the street to the Presbyterian church for the reception which was a big bash complete with dinner, cutting the cake, trowing the bouquet and the chicken dance. We all had a ball. I got a chance to grab the bride and groom to open their present so they could take it with them to their honeymoon in the mountains. Several months ago, Andy asked me if he could buy a quilt from me for his bride. I asked him what she liked. Purple and plaid was the answer. I told him I'd see what I could do and never mentioned it again. I think they were both happy with their gift. I know I found a lot of joy in making it for them.
